Bring water to a boil in large saucepan. Add potatoes and cook until tender, Drain, reserving liquid. Set aside potatoes. Measure 1 cup cooking liquid, adding water, if necessary; set aside.
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Peel and finey chop onion. Melt butter in saucepan over medium heat. Add onion to saucepan; cook, stirring frequently, until onion is translucent and tender, but not brown.
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Add flour to saucepan; season with red pepper flakes and black pepper to taste. Cook 3 to 4 minutes.
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Gradually add potatoes, reserved liquid, milk and sugar to onion mixture in saucepan; stir well. Add cheese and ham. Simmer over low heat 30 minutes, stirring frequently.